Met cute girl at bar, clicked and had a good time. Talked about setting up a date, next couple days we texted and set up date for tonight getting drinks in public. She sounded excited using exclamation marks and all that shit. Then she lands this text on me, what to say? "Hey I’m wicked sorry but I just have so much school work I need to get done before the weekend so I’m not sure tonight is going to work out. I also don’t want to lead you on in any way so idk if going on a date is the best for me rn considering I’m moving back to mass in 2 months." Considering saying, "I mean I'm busy too but I made time for our date. You won't lead me on, I'm not looking for anything specifically, just for a cool girl I have chemistry with. We had a fun time together the other night and it would be a real shame for us to look back later and regret not going on a simple first date haha" Or should I keep it simple like it doesn't bother me, "Haha it's not that serious, maybe another time"
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Oh, that's interesting information. Some sort of call out would seem in order. Maybe not the self sabotage line.
She gave you an objection/concern, but maybe that's not the truth if she is the one that approached you.
I'm curious, if you can post screenshots of the full text convo from start.
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Yeah she says "my drunk self just doesn't match my sober self". Let me ask you this. I feel like this shit happens every time, meet a cool girl at bar and then next day or two it's like nothing. I'm thinking girls just dismiss guys they meet at clubs because "oh i was just drunk" bs, and really the only way is to pull her that night
Really not much to the texting since she took awhile to respond but it was some callback humor and then I referenced the fact that we said we would get together the day after, but since it was already late that day we should reschedule. Then we worked out the logistics over next few texts and she's sounding excited using exclamation marks like "Sounds good I will see you then !" And the next day she sends the bombshell text
Straight up complete 180 from the bar interaction/texting before. No wonder people quit game after shit like this lmao