This is from March 1st to May 31th 2021. Are these stats any good? How can I improve? Matches: 93 Matches I messaged: 82 Numbers: 19 Booked dates: 15 Flakes by me: 1 Flakes by girls: 5 Actual dates: 9 (# of girls, not counting second dates) Number of dates: 11 (counting second dates) Total hookups: 6 2 of hookups were from dates without ever getting their phone number/snap/ig. Some of my numbers are ice cold (ghosted/stopped responding). Some are still warm. Number close rate: 23% Booked dates to matches rate: 18% Flake rate: 33% Actual dates to matches rate: 11% Hookups to matches rate: 7% First date close rate: 55% MORE INFO: • Live in small european country • 8th biggest city in my country (150k popluation) • I'm 24. • Have girls age 18-25 showing in my settings • Half my matches are from other cities (dates not as likely to happen) • Stats with girls in my city probably better overall • NEVER used Tinder gold/platinum or any boosts • Have like 25-30 likes (I get like 1 new like a week) BIGGEST PROBLEM: Not matching with the hot chicks in my city although I swipe on them all the time. MY BIO TRANSLATED: 185 cm 🥂 Prince of Balkan 4 languages Cuddle expert (had top grades in school) Make the world's second best scrambled eggs Weaknesses: A beautiful smile, humor, and a great 🍑 HOW CAN I IMPROVE? I've attached my photos. I've removed the shirtless pics for now. The mirror selfie tanked my results. Better pics is an obvious one. Should I hire a lifestyle photographer for that? Should I find a dog somehow and take pictures with it? Should I buy Tinder gold/platinum, start using boosts? Or anything else? Not sure if me not matching with girls I find attractive is due to the pictures or the algo not showing my profile (been shadowbanned once before) Any help is appreciated!!! LOVE PWF and this forum
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I totally relate. So my suggestion is to widen the funnel. Use hinge (if you have some wit, I think this app is best), and bumble. I also suggest hiring a photographer. You're good looking, so I think 7s and up is a realistic goal as you're moving into more advanced stages. I also look at this stage as practice. Learning to systematically move from match to date, from date to close, from close to retention is all a valuable skillset to have. Once you start landing dates with chicks you are really are attracted to, you will be less attached to outcomes and more practiced in seduction. I have a friend who holds out for girls he is intensely attracted to, but he performs terribly on dates because he's getting like 1 date a month, and he cares too much. It's like any skill, you have to practice. I happened to spend the weekend with a girl who Im crazy attracted to. I was able to effectively seduce her and she is hitting me up for more. This didn't just happen though, it took all the practice leading up. You will see quality improve and you will notice yourself being more selective simply because you can. I commend the efforts brah
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Thank I appreciate you taking the time and helping out. Truly mean that. I want to widen the funnel which is why I'm going to start doing Instagram game too. Hinge and Bumble is sadly not a good option because there are no people on the app in my country. But I'll definitely take new pics. I've convinced my buddy we're going out and take new pictures for each other's in the coming month or so. Also need pictures for instagram game. We're plotting out cool locations and things that would make for great pics (picture on a boat, jetskis, best location in our city etc). That's step 1, after that I'll probably hire a photographer. We definitely share the same mindset on a lot of stuff. It's GREAT practice going on dates, talking with girls, closing, etc. I'm learning a lot. So it will be easier once I get hotter girls. Something I've noticed a chick who is not the most beautiful/skinny can be harder to seduce than a decent looking girl because they're so conscious about themselves, their body, etc.