I recently got instagram from a girl on Tinder. I texted her a few days later commenting her InstaStory (she was somewhere in a forest for a walk) I texted her "That's what I call 'vibes'" but she hasn't even read it. It's almost two weeks later now, I haven't reopened her yet since I was bussy and didn't want to fuck up. She's got over 2K followers. She's 19 and quite hot on her age. Details: I softclosed her succesfully on Tinder. Then she said that she uses instagram more and sent me a nick. solid game from my perspective - no fuck ups so far, should still have a solid value in her eyes can't share screen shots, it's in Czech, and the translation wouldn't be very cogent. Question is, how would you follow up in situation like this? How do you reopen properly? Thank's a lot fellas
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This could very well be a girl just looking for an easy follow. Doesn’t sound like she’s interested and in my experience I’d move on. It’s a numbers game and chasing too hard is going to lead to being demoralized.
What did the convo ahead of time look like? Did you build any rapport there or was her first response sending you her insta?
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Nope, the convo was solid. I opened her, she responded quite well, I even softclosed her with "bottle of wine" text which she even clicked "like" to and said "we should then". I followed up by "what's your schedule like in these 3 following days". She didn't respond and I did the "if your shy, I can understand that" take away after 5 days and she responded with "I'm not, sorry, I just don't use Tinder as much as insta. You can add me, I spend more time there".