I met this girl around a year ago. She was very eager to meet so we went on two dates, within a couple of weeks. On the first date, we went around my hometown got some ice-cream and just had fun. The second date, was at my place, where after some foreplay we hooked up. Now after this date I went on a vacation for about two weeks, but we still texted and teased the idea of a third date. But here comes the terrible closing. Now at this time, I didn't know shit about "text game", so my idea of closing was just to see if the girl was open to it (which is good, but later I got sloppy and didn’t do it) and then just immediately jump to the hard close without checking with the girls schedule. But anyway, I tried closing her three times. Once in July, where I just said that she could come over on Friday, and she replied that she was busy that day, and I just said "Aight". Next time was around late August, where I basically wrote the same thing, and she wrote back that she would text me if she could. Third time was early September where I texted, right where I left off after the second attempt: "Hey --- Can i count on seeing you next Friday at ---?". She told me that she probably couldn't do Friday. Now at this point, you could tell by the way she texted me, that she had sensed my weakness and lost attraction. (Side note, before all the bad closing attempts she would send heart emojizz and all that, saying good morning and that she missed me.) And that’s where the screenshots at the bottom pick up. I try a very lengthy and soft close, she kinda bites, but not really. And yeah. Since then (about half a year ago) I haven’t texted her. So, bottom line, girl had very high attraction, i fucked it up with terrible closing. Now I ask of you Alex, is there anything I can do to salvage this? And if there is, please tell me via. Direct msg, I think it’s pretty obvious I need some closure on this lol. But anyway, if you read all this, I wish the best Jason

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avilench . Avatar

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just to be very clear did you actually have sex with this girl?

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Yes

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Just re-engage with "Hey. I was quite busy traveling, but we should really make this happen"

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