So I messaged a hot chick 18, saying "Hey Rebecca, what did you ask Santa for For Christmas?" My first instinct was to say " Ho Ho Ho, come sit on my lap and tell me what you want for Christmas". Felt it was over the top sexualising when she has not done anything but matched. So no response to the basic message. is it salvageable or move on AND what would have worked as a good opener for someone like her who probably gets tons of messages. Her profile info is attached