I don't mind her asking and investing in a way, but it takes the leading part and also not the topics I want to discuss, like job and why I'm somewhere. How do you handle and take back control? I'm more asking for some general guidelines or mindsets behind these type of interactions. Also, her English is not the best I suppose, the R rated things didn't go that well, so it would be a bit harder to use some humor here as she might not understand. I'm thinking " how bout we conduct this interview over a glass of wine lol" Thanks! You guys rock
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If she's asking a lot of screening questions, more often than not, she is just showing you interest
You can go the route of romanticizing any question she asks. Because if you change the topic, you are punishing compliance
"What are you doing here? Work?"
"Yes. Work and I'm here for our love as well"
"First visit?.."
"Yes. But if we get married, I might just stay back ;) "
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lol so I combined what you told me into one, and she's "tell me about your job" maybe I could just go "male stripper" or some sort of curiosity loop now? I don't see me answering htese questions properly takes this to anywhere
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Go for it!
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ok thanks, interesting you suggest that, I try to avoid the romanticizing direction here actually as they take it more seriously and literally compared to other locations.