https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/overinvested-how-to-follow-up So this is a follow up to the above thread. The girl was a bit slow to respond but ultimately I got the number and soft closed for drinks. Once we switched to text she ghosted on two close attempts. She was insta replying to my messages so maybe my last message about where she was from wasn’t necessary, could have just suggested the meet instead. The plan was to close in the text after that one but she didn’t reply. For some reason my phone deleted two messages. After her text about having work due Monday I said ahh sounds stressful what are you studying. She said biotechnology and pharmaceutical engineering. Then I said the artsy line. Thoughts?

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i think u did okay. when she said "just got done" i wouldve keep pushing for the meetup at this point thats the only thing i would focus on. if you dont hear from her you can just use a standard takeaway "dont think too hard now"

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Thanks man that makes sense. She replied a little bit ago after 3 days. Go with “ah she lives” then push for the meet?

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yea that works

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