no its sometimes not the best play because most girls dont want their problems solve and in some cases, it makes them feel stupid or think you're putting them down when you offer solutions.
Especially on first few dates, keep it casual imo.
like imagine telling your co-worker/peer or some random "man I dont want to go to work/school today" and they respond "build a business"
Or you just walked up a ton of stairs and say "im tired" and some random says "workout more, 7 days a week, eat your veggies"
lol and actually when dealing with the hottest girls, they actually dont really have big problems, they are pretty much set for life like a trust fund baby. They are usually in a better position than most dudes unless the dude is a multi-millionaire or something. This idea some random dude will fix her problems, she should think its just funny instead of annoying. But you will lose points in most cases regardless
32 Posts (+21), 576 Cmts (+276)
no its sometimes not the best play because most girls dont want their problems solve and in some cases, it makes them feel stupid or think you're putting them down when you offer solutions.
Especially on first few dates, keep it casual imo.
24 Posts (+10), 48 Cmts (+8)
Then why complain or endlessly talk about something if you don’t actually want help. Just attention seeking subconsciously?
32 Posts (+21), 576 Cmts (+276)
like imagine telling your co-worker/peer or some random "man I dont want to go to work/school today" and they respond "build a business"
Or you just walked up a ton of stairs and say "im tired" and some random says "workout more, 7 days a week, eat your veggies"
lol and actually when dealing with the hottest girls, they actually dont really have big problems, they are pretty much set for life like a trust fund baby. They are usually in a better position than most dudes unless the dude is a multi-millionaire or something. This idea some random dude will fix her problems, she should think its just funny instead of annoying. But you will lose points in most cases regardless
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
Because they are women. They literally crave drama, indignant feelings, they are chronically dissatisfied as a prevailing permanent disposition.