I matched with a girl 2 months ago and we had good vibes but her parents are crazy and won’t let her out cause of Covid. Everything’s open now and her parents are still fucked in the head. I asked her if she was able to go out 3 times the last time was. I feel like maybe she lost interest of is losing interest. I gave no idea when her parents will let her out and neither does she. A Any advice?
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17 Posts (+5), 44 Cmts (+7)
There's a video where Alex talks about these kinds of situations. You really only have one option since she didn't give you a timeline and it's her parents that are keeping her locked in...keep checking up on her periodically (once every week or so).
But at the same time, if you insisted way too much in the beginning set up a date, she also could've seen you as the needy type, and as such lost interest.
Everything depends on how much she invests when you check up on her.
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No I think around the third time I was really surprised I was kinda pushy but not too pushy. But it’s been like two weeks since I asked her if she’s aloud out of the house.
17 Posts (+5), 44 Cmts (+7)
Couple things. Make sure when you check up, don’t open directly with asking her if she’s available, you have to build up to that.
Second, also consider that if she is indeed telling the truth, very few girls will actually sneak out of the house to see a guy that she’s never met.
Keep trying, but just don’t be surprised if the date doesn’t end up happening.