Suggestions? She seems like a very wholesome kind of girl “I could tell you, but that would ruin the surprise” “It’s a bit R rated, not sure you’re ready to know”
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Suggestions? She seems like a very wholesome kind of girl “I could tell you, but that would ruin the surprise” “It’s a bit R rated, not sure you’re ready to know”
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
536 Posts (+164), 850 Cmts (+529)
Oh well she unmatched. It all went downhill after I brought up the spanking lol. I really thought she would be into it but it ended up fucking me over
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Rip sorry man. My general thoughts, which might be wrong ofc, are that at this early in the convo it's great to go sexual by framing it as a joke (i.e you both know what you are talking about but you won't make it explicit unless she gives enthusiastic consent).
But anyway it's hard bc I have lost girls due to not going sexual enough early. And also lost girls due to going sexual too fast so.... Good way to calibrate this is by asking the "biggest turn on/fantasy" or the "give me the basics, fun kinks?" It will give you a read on how comfortable she is going sexual over text