So heres the screenshot. I get the vibe she had a bad breakup, OR im not gonna ignore the major possibility she was just being nice and isnt interested. For context, this is a girl i worked with a couple years back and recently found on Insta and hit up (was a bit of a pussy back then, big regret of mine is not talking to her more then although in fairness at the time she had a bf). Again its not Tinder so theres not that social contract, she never asked to talk to me and i dont want to be a dick and overstep because i hate when guys get pushy, but i do know like Alex says theres a difference between needy and persistent. Complete honesty my gut feeling here is to just take a knee, she's not interested which i completely understand and respect, and I feel like the best course of action is to let this one go, but i wanted a second opinion first.

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Your gut feeling is totally right bro. Girls also hate pushiness, they get enough of that shit anyway so I would honestly just move on. Goodluck bro.

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Yea exactly I took the knee here and i could tell she appreciated that, hit me with one of those "if I'm ever looking for something I'll let you know" lines where u basically see she appreciates you not pushing more and is trying to let you down easy and keep some false hope alive lol

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“if I'm ever looking for something I'll let you know” pfft lol almost like she’s trolling at this point. Jheezzus

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