Hey guys, first time posting here. Alex's videos have been a big help to me, but I'm still a beginner in learning good text game and this interaction is far from my best work, so any advice for what I could do with this case, or just in general, would be useful to me. I've been exchanging messages with this girl who is very much my type on Bumble for the past couple of days. I managed a decent reframe early in our conversation and displayed some confidence, but she ultimately doesn't seem that invested and I'm having trouble puzzling out where to go from here. The spliced together screenshots pick up from this morning when I reengaged her with the Ryan Gosling meme.
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Relax man it's easy for me to see this as an outsider, I fucking stumble and bumble like a buffoon myself when pussy is on the line. The goal is to learn from the others that are doing it and how they are doing it. I might just start using the Hey Trouble and the simplest fucking lines that Alex uses himself. My fear is that girls will call me out on it being too common, but fuck that noise, I'm just going to keep using em.
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Ah, that's not really a fear I have, mostly because I favor the slightly more customizable low investment openers, but also being low investment when it's appropriate probably isn't going to come across as boring to many people. Standing out is nice, but it's not worth being too eager or needy.
I actually already used the "Are you always this chatty?" line on her early on to call out her lack of investment, which worked a treat. I might take another swing at it and reengage her later if I can think of a good way to do that - not Gosling again, of course.