Her-I don’t know what I’m doing tomorrow, I’m busy Friday, and I don’t know what I’m doing Saturday or Sunday Me-I’m sure we can find a time that suits us both Her-👍 Me-pick a night Her-hmm hard, I don’t wanna plan let’s just meet when we meet Me-you’re not making this easy Her-that ain’t me🙂 Me-so you’re saying when you went to amusementpark you woke up 5am and decided you want to go then and there Her-haha no Context: this is a girl I’ve met multiple times and visited we just haven’t slept yet and those meets have been very spontaneous but unpredictable and not anything to rely on happening. Therefore not wanting to plan a meet up was a complete curveball for me since I’ve never seen Alex handle that kind off situation My take is to confront it with something like “so you’re saying our meet us not important enough to plan” but I don’t know how I would say it without sounding hurt or so, i don’t want to go along with her idea either since it puts me in a position to chase I would appreciate all advice on how to go from here and any mistakes I’ve done earlier in the conversation Edit: the reason I think she doesn’t want to make plans is because she prioritises other plans that might show up before meeting with me, then I need to show her meeting me something worth doing instead of other plans, how would I do that?
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I don’t get your point. Sure I don’t matter to her enough, but that’s probably partly on me.
It’s like you go up to a stranger on the street to move with you to Colombia. It’s probably not gonna happen because 1. You haven’t built enough investment and 2. The thing you’re asking requires a lot of it.
She doesn’t prioritise me cause I haven’t built enough investment for her to do that. The next step would maybe be building more of it or trying to figure out why it is like that.
That’s how at least I think it is and how I’ve interpreted Alex videos, or am I wrong?
Throwing it out like this would be to say the least, anticlimactic and we will probably meet anyways in the weekend since we have common friends.
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hmm i see both your and life skills points but mostly agree with life. you said u 2 went out multiple times already and you still dont really matter to her? yea i dunno it doesent look like she is all that into u man
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Alright I’ve decided to just leave her on read and then invite her to a party on Saturday instead, thanks for the tips guys. I will update you on how it went.