Her-I don’t know what I’m doing tomorrow, I’m busy Friday, and I don’t know what I’m doing Saturday or Sunday Me-I’m sure we can find a time that suits us both Her-👍 Me-pick a night Her-hmm hard, I don’t wanna plan let’s just meet when we meet Me-you’re not making this easy Her-that ain’t me🙂 Me-so you’re saying when you went to amusementpark you woke up 5am and decided you want to go then and there Her-haha no Context: this is a girl I’ve met multiple times and visited we just haven’t slept yet and those meets have been very spontaneous but unpredictable and not anything to rely on happening. Therefore not wanting to plan a meet up was a complete curveball for me since I’ve never seen Alex handle that kind off situation My take is to confront it with something like “so you’re saying our meet us not important enough to plan” but I don’t know how I would say it without sounding hurt or so, i don’t want to go along with her idea either since it puts me in a position to chase I would appreciate all advice on how to go from here and any mistakes I’ve done earlier in the conversation Edit: the reason I think she doesn’t want to make plans is because she prioritises other plans that might show up before meeting with me, then I need to show her meeting me something worth doing instead of other plans, how would I do that?