First date went great. She asked me to stay longer so we hung up for another 2 hours. We made out twice and she literally did a happy dance lol it was cute. She texted me later that day she had a great time. I agreed. she followed me on TikTok and snap. I followed her back. The below pictures seem like she really did want to meet up again but then she ghosted, I waited 3 days to double text her. Her dating account is deleted as of yesterday so before the newest message I sent. I'm not sure how much more persistent I can be. I'm also just confused why I was ghosted after what was such a high level of interest. If there are any tips or insight someone could show me that would be great. Actually, really liked this girl
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yeah the issue is that you didnt close on the first date though. i see this pattern almost everyday. a guy goes on a date with a girl, thinks the date went well. and then the girl stops responding.
every single one of the situations has one thing in common and thats sex didnt happen. if she wanted you to stay for an extra two hours she most likely is DTF how come you didnt try to close?
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She said she never lets sex happen on the first date but that the second date is different. Her house had her kid at it and my house was about an hour away. I figured the next date would be only 10 minutes away from place and she had agreed to the second date.
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yea I had many girls say that, who I later wound up fucking 1/2 an hour later. This is just an unfortunate reality. if you don't close on the first date, the odds of seeing her go way down.