Hey man, just wanted to get some quick insight to learn from this. She hasn’t replied yet and I’m worried she will end up ghosting. Is that first message really enough to kill my chances?
It might be. Never apologize for escalating in an appropriate way. She probably read that and thought "OMG. He doesn't get it". Remember what Rollo always says "she wants you to just get it"
Who knows she may respond. Definitely do not follow up for at least 2 days. This girl is not important to your life man, but the reference experience could be a great step forward for you. Keep your head up. I'm in my 40s and I still fuck up situations too. Did this past week, in fact. Remember that you are always the source and at cause to meet more attractive women, do more cold approach, go out and socialize and meet people, etc. Hope this helps bro
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Ok, drop the question mark, you just used one. Yeah she's unlikely to respond to your boring rhetorical remark that wasn't really a question anyway
"Do you like tequila" send ASAP, or else this dies on the vine IMO.
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Ok just sent it, I’ll let you know how this goes. Love all the value in this group thanks again
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Hey man, just wanted to get some quick insight to learn from this. She hasn’t replied yet and I’m worried she will end up ghosting. Is that first message really enough to kill my chances?
44 Posts (+21), 550 Cmts (+363)
It might be. Never apologize for escalating in an appropriate way. She probably read that and thought "OMG. He doesn't get it". Remember what Rollo always says "she wants you to just get it"
Who knows she may respond. Definitely do not follow up for at least 2 days. This girl is not important to your life man, but the reference experience could be a great step forward for you. Keep your head up. I'm in my 40s and I still fuck up situations too. Did this past week, in fact. Remember that you are always the source and at cause to meet more attractive women, do more cold approach, go out and socialize and meet people, etc. Hope this helps bro