Still working on this one, hadn’t got the feedback I’d like, figured I’d repost to see if I can get fresh perspectives/ thoughts on how to handle this. Two things, her alcohol objection I feel is a little bit of a shit test, as well as her continually referring to me as fool, which I want to address.
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UPDATE: feel this is a good opportunity to learn and grow in this area, seems I’m still getting frame tested (recovering mode) but I wanted to post because she seems high interest enough to allow my mistakes thus far to slide, so this is a great opportunity to not only bang her but if I don’t, I can reflect on this and adjust accordingly
Was thinking “that confident in us already, introducing me to mom 😏” - I like it but In this context no because I think she’s more dtf and I don’t need a date cushion.
“That’s your job, just don’t tell her everything we do 😉 “ - trying to think of how I can win the frame back
“What mom don’t know won’t hurt 😏- too cliche but very fitting for the context.
Please provide insight/ feedback
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