Still working on this one, hadn’t got the feedback I’d like, figured I’d repost to see if I can get fresh perspectives/ thoughts on how to handle this. Two things, her alcohol objection I feel is a little bit of a shit test, as well as her continually referring to me as fool, which I want to address.
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Fascinating! From my perspective it seems as though you’re being taken for a ride on the brat-train! You’re high SMV Clinton, you’re going to get a lot more leeway than others. Looking at the interaction, she has pretty good frame control! That’s natural with women! Both me and her are waiting for you to show Dominance. This archetype does not want or need you to be beating around the bush with all these emojis and “cutesy lines”! That’s just not what’s needed here...
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UPDATE: feel this is a good opportunity to learn and grow in this area, seems I’m still getting frame tested (recovering mode) but I wanted to post because she seems high interest enough to allow my mistakes thus far to slide, so this is a great opportunity to not only bang her but if I don’t, I can reflect on this and adjust accordingly
Was thinking “that confident in us already, introducing me to mom 😏” - I like it but In this context no because I think she’s more dtf and I don’t need a date cushion.
“That’s your job, just don’t tell her everything we do 😉 “ - trying to think of how I can win the frame back
“What mom don’t know won’t hurt 😏- too cliche but very fitting for the context.
Please provide insight/ feedback
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