I had a date last monday with this girl which was good, then another home 'movies' date Thursday night and hooked up. It was hot and we both finished. Then I tried to schedule a 3rd date and shes cancelled twice for what I think are legitimate reasons. But now she's very slow to text or respond. We live 30 minutes away from each other. The chemistry seemed really good and she seemed interested still. Any feedback would be great!
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yeah that is an odd situation. its one of 3 options that could have happened.
One - there was something about the encounter that she didn't like
2 - she's having really bad case of self slut shaming and feels guilty about having sex
3 - all is well and she's just hungover or in a bad mood.
i think the best thing you can do is leave alone for 2-3 days and see if she replies. If not you can re eengage with something non needy like a meme or a "yo sexy". Or an inside joke
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tonight would be day 2 of no contact. Should I wait until tomorrow and then send the hey girl ryan gosling meme? Also random Q but do you think there is a correlation with a girl shaving 'down there' and how sexually active she is? I noticed she didn't before coming over. Also haven't noticed any real signs of red flags
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yeah man just be patient and give it a day or 2 and yeah there might be a bit of a corelation but a lot of girls who are not that sexually active might shave and there are some sluts who don't. So i wouldn't think too deeply into this