Hey all, I am new here to the PWF Forums. Matched with this girl on Hinge in September, she was moving into my part of town in October. Come October I hit her up and we went on a date last Thursday to get drinks and ended up having sex on the first date. She texts me as soon as she got home saying she had a great time and I replied saying I did too. Next day I had to travel back to my hometown to visit family but on Sunday before I left my home town I texted her asking what her schedule is like this coming week. No response to this day. Was looking to see if people think its a good idea to hit her up Thursday or Friday this week and what might be a good way to phrase the follow up? Or if I should just leave it and wait for her to respond? Curious what you guys think - open to feedback and criticism.
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This is a tough one. I'll try to share more thoughts later. Looks like she just wanted a ONS. Also after sex or close-to-it, the following reach out should not include soft closing for another date.
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Sounds good - I'll definitely wait till I send anything to her then. Wanna get all the feedback I can. Also why is that? Do girls just get scared away if you try to soft close after sex?
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No, I think that their internal response is - "is that all he wants?"
Rather than just reaching out and offering value that doesn't include another meetup suggestion immediately on the 1st message reengaging w her
I think that's where I fucked up in my most recent post "great first date" involving a chick named Lauren. And that didn't full close. And Alex & Guy thought it was point of no return, but I think it's essentially what I wrote above & also not texting next day after the date. Impossible to know unless she's willing to ever respond, and same in your case. So many variables and women are inconsistent by nature anyway