First of all thanks Alex for putting out gold content on youtube. It has def helped me a lot and also quick shout out to fire texts app, comes very handy when sometimes I'm not super sure what to text, although I try to learn from the responses generated from it and not over use it but over here in this case, it seems more context would be required than using just the output from fire texts. Went out twice with a girl I found on hinge. Great chemistry and vibes, our second date was 2 days ago at a party, we made out a couple of times where I initiated first and then after that she kinda was more into it and wanted me to kiss even more and more which we did. Lots of physical touch, dancing, holding her waist and all. The next morning, we exchanged texts where we both shared how much we enjoyed the other night, I playfully mentioned about my naughty dream about us, not that detailed it was v surface level just trying to escalate slowly where I said something along the lines of "You showed up at my house unannounced, had to sneak you in, we did more unholy things and then had to sneak you out before my parents caught us" (I didn't randomly send this, I made sure it is sent correctly after lay-ups) And before you guys ask, why didn't I pull the same night... trust me, culturally women over here are not super DTF and besides both of us were bit drunk and about to pass out anytime. And so haven't got any reply and it's been about a day or so. So should I send "Must've left you speechless šŸ˜" or should I pull back and do takeaways?

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Yeah, saw one of your videos on how to maintain the attraction when dating or with FWB and that line of yours "I feel something is off, you can tell me what's up" feels gold honestly, I think pairing that up with "look, if you're not into this, just lmk and i can stop trying" could potentially work in my favour?

Idk I mean I haven't tried this line with other girls. But, would you recommend talking about this over call, voice note or text?

It ain't like we never met or the chemistry was bad that call would be so awkward but curious to know what you have to say šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø

P.S - I do in fact have other leads and planning on meeting them but since I already have some good chemistry and we've made-out, I feel it'll be wasted efforts with this one, but if it doesn't work out... cool, on to next one.

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I dont think she will pick up the phone so i wouldnt do that. Text iis probably best. There is nothing to really "talk about though". You just need to try to get her out again and this time close

Im pretty sure i suggested a text in one of my previous comments

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