First of all thanks Alex for putting out gold content on youtube. It has def helped me a lot and also quick shout out to fire texts app, comes very handy when sometimes I'm not super sure what to text, although I try to learn from the responses generated from it and not over use it but over here in this case, it seems more context would be required than using just the output from fire texts. Went out twice with a girl I found on hinge. Great chemistry and vibes, our second date was 2 days ago at a party, we made out a couple of times where I initiated first and then after that she kinda was more into it and wanted me to kiss even more and more which we did. Lots of physical touch, dancing, holding her waist and all. The next morning, we exchanged texts where we both shared how much we enjoyed the other night, I playfully mentioned about my naughty dream about us, not that detailed it was v surface level just trying to escalate slowly where I said something along the lines of "You showed up at my house unannounced, had to sneak you in, we did more unholy things and then had to sneak you out before my parents caught us" (I didn't randomly send this, I made sure it is sent correctly after lay-ups) And before you guys ask, why didn't I pull the same night... trust me, culturally women over here are not super DTF and besides both of us were bit drunk and about to pass out anytime. And so haven't got any reply and it's been about a day or so. So should I send "Must've left you speechless 😏" or should I pull back and do takeaways?

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just say "Dont get too excited now.."

Also, do you have firetexts? cause its perfect for shiit like this

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Yeah bro, I do have firetexts (as I mentioned above) but since it only reads the last 10 texts and we already went out twice, I know her a little bit, a more context was required. I do think I prob hit point of no return, not because I didn't close maybe because she felt too rushed, so I sent her one of your skeleton meme "waiting for your text be like". (before you replied here)

Idk if I should triple text and be persistent and ask if "hey if you're upset about something you can share it with me but if you've lost interest no hard feelings :)" or just say “Hey, I enjoyed meeting you. If you’re up for meeting again, let me know. If not, no worries—take care.”

I mean it ain't like I'm super sold on this girl, but I've seen a lot of your videos where you were persistent even after getting blocked and all and you flipped the tables and it worked in your favour.

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it technically doesnt hurt you to tripple text, but i would wait at least anotther week before doing it. you can say "look, if you're not into this, just lmk and i can stop trying"

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