So my main concern of this would be, is a second date still possible? So I matched with this girl on hinge a few weeks ago, early 20s. I got her IG off the app pretty quickly and it was just basic tamed flirting, I didn't wanna do too much early as she was LTR oriented on her profile . The screenshots are me setting up a pool date the week after we matched and our text exchanges afterward. She seems compliant there and we have the date, it goes well, we have some drinks, play a couple games of pool, banter and flirt a little. We go to a bar across the street, on the way there we makeout a bit. The date continues there, we talk more, etc. After that we go outside, it's a weeknight so we decided to call it there. We makeout again at the end of the night, and she seems compliant with it. I don't close because I have bad logistics and the timing wasn't the best. Although, I don't get to the point of no return since we didn't almost hookup. We still exchange texts even a week and a half after the date and she said shes 'so down' for a second date, but I notice her slow fading and responding less. She recently unmatched me on hinge (although our hinge convo was in the hidden section and inactive for weeks after I got her IG) and I'm not sure whether that was to clean up her feed or get rid of me, she does still follow me on IG though. My bad for the essay

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Anything I can do? This is the first time in the interaction where she left it on liked/read. Was responding all the other times. I was thinking about sending this tomorrow “Hey, real talk, you still down to smoke? I’ve got a place in mind”
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No you dont want to ask for compliance when she is ignoring you. I recommend waiting a week and then "If you're too nervous, id understand"
Also, do you have FireTexts? cause its perfect for situations like this