Hi all here's the exchange. Me: honestly you should wear this on our date Her: That depends if you get a date Me: Can I be honest? Her: Yesss definitely Me: If I'm being honest you seem suspicially innocent. Her: Huh? Innocent howww, not offended but curious Me: it's definitely the smile I think you give up a cool easy vibe but at the same time I feel like you have a wild side underneath. Her: Haha you might be spot on. I'm shy at first with people I don't know but if I'm close with you or I drink I'm definitely more wild. Me: perfect, I'm hoping you're as adventurous as you look. Her: how adventurous are you? How do I proceed without trying to enter into her qualifying frame?