In my experience once sexting happens the date never does.. You just become her sexting monkey. If you sext before meeting then the girl will get it in her mind that she’s obligated to have sex with you when you actually meet. It’s a near 100% flake rate after that happens. What’s everyone else’s experience with that?
I don't entirely agree with this, although I agree that it's something to look out for. I think that getting a girl horny, and leaving her with some mystery attached to you is ideal. It becomes important to define that it isn't set in stone that you two will fuck "no expectations", "no pressure", "let's see if this spark translates in person". It's a thin line, but I've had some incredible sex with girls I sexted before meeting, and I've also had girls block me right before we were meant to meet for these over-commited reasons you outline here
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In my experience once sexting happens the date never does.. You just become her sexting monkey. If you sext before meeting then the girl will get it in her mind that she’s obligated to have sex with you when you actually meet. It’s a near 100% flake rate after that happens. What’s everyone else’s experience with that?
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I don't entirely agree with this, although I agree that it's something to look out for. I think that getting a girl horny, and leaving her with some mystery attached to you is ideal. It becomes important to define that it isn't set in stone that you two will fuck "no expectations", "no pressure", "let's see if this spark translates in person". It's a thin line, but I've had some incredible sex with girls I sexted before meeting, and I've also had girls block me right before we were meant to meet for these over-commited reasons you outline here
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Unless it’s literally that night 100% true.