What's happening guys I have posted a pic from yesterday here, and I want to know what my current SMV is. On apps, I only swipe on girls im attracted to. At the end of the day, a lot of my matches still end up being below my standard (after I dive deeper into their profiles). I currently am looking for a partner. I want kids, and am being incredibly selective as to who I am expending energy with. I think I am good looking, but it seems the apps don't necessarily agree. Wheat waffles gave me a 4/10, but that focuses strictly on the face. With the effort I put into my physique and personal/professional/emotional development (even though that doesn't factor into SMV), I think I am much higher than a 4. The majority of my matches and dates are with girls who I would consider 6s. I will at times match with 7s and higher, but often I am struggling to get a ton of investment from these types. My pictures could use an update, but I want to see if you all think that it makes sense to hire a photographer now, or if I should continue to work on the physique and hire one later. I'm very open to the idea that online apps aren't going to work for me. I get matches on Feeld, because I am experienced and I believe that there is a bit more leeway on that app for attractiveness, if you can express your kinks well, and you know how to own that shit. I live in the Bay, and competition is up there. There's just a lot of men. Honest assessment and suggestions for improvements would be great. Thanks in advance boys!
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Life Skills i think this guy could use some help from you man, ur a bit older too and i see ur still getting matched with a lot of pretty girls
My opinion is that urSMV is high enough as you seem tall and are in great shape. Ur obviously an older guy but can still get attrictive girls if your photos are good enough., but they have to be really good, not just crappy mirror selfies. Look at the video i linked below, IndianPE has lower SMV but with great photos and good game still has amazing success
youtube.com/watch?v=XCZshGvuhVY
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Absolutely look at that video with Nitin. I have a couple pro photos in the works but my main pic is of me in a tank top, then I have a close up, 2 with different hot ex girlfriends, and one with family. I'm very private so I keep all that anonymous.
I'm going in a different direction with my advice even tho I agree with Jan completely. I think you are stuck in a black pill mindset. Money does not matter unless you're broke, then it Hurts you. Muscles does matter somewhat. You're good here, although you don't show it off with that white long sleeve shirt.
Game and frame are WAY more important. My in-person game is as good as it gets, my OLD game is improving gradually...my frame is strong to the point where I'm rejecting and unmatching girls left and right the minute I see a red flag or find them annoying. I unmatch 5x more women than unmatch me, and they're usually the hottest ones that do - probably overwhelmed with matches....and I believe with certainty theyre making a mistake when they do, cause they haven't seen me live in full charismatic glory lolol.
A chick that was so so threw herself at me at the bar last night, then she got annoying after agreeing to come over my place. then she insisted I said tomorrow night and she had agreed to that. Nope, not doing a frame battle with you sweetheart, the value's all w me. I blocked and deleted before going to bed simply bc I legit don't wanna hear from her again. Sex would probably happen next time but nah I'm good without the annoyance.
Another bumble chick today, just seemed like she was fielding a couple offers for dates tonight, I said I need to know asap so I could plan my evening accordingly, she said another time then, I said this isn't going to work, good luck, block, unmatch.
That's frame, and that's power. No black pill mindset will teach game or frame. I recommend Julien and Owen videos and I also love old Brent Smith stuff about mindset, intent, creating your story. All 3 of these guys are about as opposite to black pill as you'll find.
Your SMV is fine, I hope you'll take my advice to heart. I'm in my 40s btw
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Actually, I am having a hard deciphering what that advice is. I am happy for your success though. Here are two recent examples of my frame/game. Open to feedback
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