Hey, Im wondering how you guys go about asking to go back to your place. I literally don't know how so I started off pretty weird sounding but lately I just say something along the lines of lets take this some place more comfortable. Unfortunately I can never seem to get a girl back to my place on the first date. I always get really touchy on the date and make sure I kiss them at some point. Am I just not getting sexual enough? I feel kind of awkward going too sexual on the first date. Does anyone have any tips to increase my close rate on first dates outside of my place.
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I see what you're saying but some of my best date have come right to my house. I get the sense that girls are thinking about what other people are thinking about them when we go to a bar and if you arnt a total creep when you meet I dont think safety concerns are an issue.
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A lot of your statements and thinking are quite off. Whether girls care about kissing in public or not (most girls won't) doesn't nullify the fact that a bar is the best activity for a first date- public, casual, drinks. If the girl doesn't want to do pda, you can just pull her to another spot after. Secondly, the whole point of a safety concern is that it is something the girl has that prevents her from meeting you, obviously when you guys have agreed to meet, she thinks you're for the most part normal and there is no more safety concern. And yes, you can definitely have hot girls (actual hot girls not 6s & 7s) straight to your place but it generally requires a significant amount of calibrated, textgame (not PWF where you go from open to close within 10-30 messages). The most bang for your buck is going to be from public dates.