I already posted on the Facebook page, but I wanted to cross-post here. Trying to make plans with this girl, it seems she likes the wine part but doesn't want a ONS. I visit the area fairly regularly (5-8 times, a year). So once a month or month and a half. Here is my ideas "when did I say I only wanted a one night stand" I can also add "I actually visit the area fairly regularly" (am there mostly due to family) Everything in parentheses is explanation to you all and not part of the message.