Should I still say “I’ll get the wine and massage oil ready” I don’t want to make it sound like I’m trying to give her a foot massage
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Should I still say “I’ll get the wine and massage oil ready” I don’t want to make it sound like I’m trying to give her a foot massage
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While I agree with your observation of 90% of dudes building 0 investment, I don't necessarily agree on your ways. I like the first and third text you sent, but it doesn't really lead you anywhere. The idea behind them is solid, sure, but that goes out the window if she doesn't go with it..
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That's the point of investment. If you do it right she will lead it for you. You're mistaking the girl leading it as it not being led anywhere, this is false. If you invest correctly a girl will be drawn to you so much that she will fill in the blanks for you. Think on it. I feel like you're trying to hide what you really want to say because DUHH lol, if the girl doesn't go with what you send it "goes out the window" (I honestly dont agree with that dumb idea but nevertheless) Same goes for any text ever. Its about sending the best texts and humbly that's what I like to give.
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I agree with this sentiment in person. But bro, dating apps are a much MUCH different ballgame than in-person interactions. A girl will only invest if she has a baseline attraction to you on the dating app already. A lot of times you have to build the investment like you say, but these 'investment' tactics will not work if you're not already leading the interaction towards the possibility of a meetup. Building that kind of investment can work sometimes on the dating apps, but chances are low. especially if she's very attractive, she's going to have a lot of options and you can't afford to be her text buddy in the meantime.