I had 2 "going on a walk" dates with 2 different tinder girls last days. I dont think I will ever do a walking date again, because both went really bad (Its just nothing is open, and girls didnt want to come to my place) . Both dates lasted about 1 hour, we were walking and doing small talk, no real talk. I got stiffled and comfortable with that kind of talk. Conversations were flowing , but not tension, no man to woman , nothing. I just figured I would do that as I get them home, but both turned down offer to come inside when I came to my door. How to do a walking date with success? Also first one there is no chance to recover, second one was super hot, so I have to try saving it. We had talked about "dancing" at my place, but now she spends about 24 hours to even open messsages on Instagram (no screenshots cause not english). Is there a good message to make them look past a shitty,friendly first date to give me a second chance ? I was gonne do something like this; " Hey Anna, I know our walk was mostly just small talk, and I didnt get to show you who I really am. Dont judge me on this short walk, there is more to come; join me for that dancing evening we talked about, no pressure you can leave at any time" I already know this is a low value message, but can you guys provide a better one that might have some chance to make her give me a second chance ??

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Don’t be negative man. She is investing which is good. This is the chick you went on the walking date with?

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Yeah, thats the girl from walking date. Im not sure what to suggest now, cause I dont want to go on another walking date, and there are literally no alternatives,cause everything is closed. Was thinking about taking her for paddling in my canoe,but afraid it would be another "friendly" date. I didnt answer her, but she know I saw message, so might piss her off.

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“Me too. But you seem cool ;)”

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