2 questions, walking dates, and recovering after friendzone

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I had 2 "going on a walk" dates with 2 different tinder girls last days. I dont think I will ever do a walking date again, because both went really bad (Its just nothing is open, and girls didnt want to come to my place) .
Both dates lasted about 1 hour, we were walking and doing small talk, no real talk. I got stiffled and comfortable with that kind of talk. Conversations were flowing , but not tension, no man to woman , nothing. I just figured I would do that as I get them home, but both turned down offer to come inside when I came to my door. How to do a walking date with success?

Also first one there is no chance to recover, second one was super hot, so I have to try saving it. We had talked about "dancing" at my place, but now she spends about 24 hours to even open messsages on Instagram (no screenshots cause not english).

Is there a good message to make them look past a shitty,friendly first date to give me a second chance ?
I was gonne do something like this; " Hey Anna, I know our walk was mostly just small talk, and I didnt get to show you who I really am. Dont judge me on this short walk, there is more to come; join me for that dancing evening we talked about, no pressure you can leave at any time" I already know this is a low value message, but can you guys provide a better one that might have some chance to make her give me a second chance ??

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Yea man, I definitely don’t recommend walking dates for that reason. Generally, I only do straight to my place or bar nearby. But with corona it’s really only the former. If she doesn’t bite on that then I’ll try to convince her a bit, If not I’ll let her go.

In terms of your situation with second girl, definitely do not send that text. Did you guys message at all after the date? How long has it been?

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Thanks for reply. It was 3 days ago. Yesterday I just sent a "pinging" message to se if she would reply. She gave a short reply, I sent a new message which she still did`nt open after 24 hours (but she does not use Instagram much). So now if she eventually replies to that I just have to send SOMETHING which gives me a clear answer if she will give me another chance or not..

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avilench . Avatar

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Post the last two screenshots man

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