Hello, I’m wondering if the way I’ve been using Tinder has crashed my elo to low and how to reverse this. To review, I made a garbage Tinder profile about a month ago and then deleted it after a week. Then after a couple weeks I started a new garbage profile, for about a week and then made it inactive. I have been tuning and reactivating and then hiding my profile again and have done this like 3 times. I can show you my profile if you want, it’s definitely not good and I’ve hid it right now, but I have 4 pictures that are definitely better than the first pictures I started with and a better bio and I get 0 likes in three days. I’m thinking that I must have driven my elo into the ground throughout this whole process. I was getting some likes before. I’m wondering if I should delete Tinder and go at it again after improving my pictures slightly, or if I have to do the 6 step process outlined by Indian PE about how to get unbanned from Tinder.

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Yeah, I used to have DTF in my bio as well but I don’t think that will help you get matches if you say that upfront. I mean, I still got matches with girls that I think are DTF but most girls on the app already know that guys on the app are DTF. And the ones that I matched with that are DTF still have a hard time trying to meet me. It’s good that you’re letting those on the other side that see your profile know that upfront but I think saying it in a way that is more indirect gets you more matches because there are girls that are DTF on Tinder too that might not say that they’re DTF on their bios as well. I don’t know @avilench .@Indian PE what do you think?

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Yes. Definitely does not help to be that non-subtle about it

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Yeah, it's obviously a half joke kind of bio but was definitely thinking of taking that out, or going in a completely different direction. Here was another bio I had up for a minute

Looking for a sweet girl to drink wine and cuddle, Mario kart, and mischief.

-Passionate about fitness, and hiking
-I make no excuses and have a great life
-will listen and laugh

I honestly had the best results, still shitty, with my half cringe honest bio and selfies and pics with my kids in it.

I really need to think of what angle I'm going for and congruencey

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Yeah, I think that’s a much better bio.

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