Is this a shit test? So I have been texting this person, I am 23 and she is 29. It has been good so far, good investment from her and even set up a date to meet up. (For some wine of course) I say, “dw you’re in for a treat” Which she replies to, “lol I’m trying to keep an open mind” I reply with, “wdym” She replies with, “about your cockiness” I reply with, ”Ik it’s different speaking to a confident guy” Which leads to her sending the messages from the screenshot I uploaded. Need some advice on how to respond and if this is a shit test which I’m pretty sure it is
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Jan, this is the one time I’d disagree with your responses (but I agree with the logical and qualifying part). I think the first response is something she hears from every other guy. 2nd response seems like it would piss her off at this point lol especially with how she just sent 6 messages from his last cocky response.
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Thanks for ur input I see your point. Thing about 1st response is yes lots of guys say it but how many would say it in this context after she just sent those texts? Not many, most would start qualifying or being too logical. 2nd response is why the winky face is there so she knows im just being playful.
Either way Michael DMed me saying she responded immediately with "shut up lol" so she was being playful and I told him to just say "make me if u can😉"
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No yes Jan helped me with his advice. I chose to go with “awww you’re cute when you’re a lil angry” and she responded back well. So it’s a shit test passed!