I was texting this girl and had a good soft close where she enthousiastically agreed on having a drink on my balcony. However, it had been raining just a few times this week so she said that first had to stop. I responded by taking away that barrier by stating it had a roof , following up by asking what her schedule looked like. Now she responded positive on the barrier taken away, nevertheless she selectively ignored the schedule question. What would be the best approach now? I was thinking maybe to say "its not a trick question" , or would a different route work better?
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Post a screenshot man
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Its in Dutch, so dont now if that would really help. I will give you the english transcription of the chat, might have some minor translational nuances but tried my best haha
Me: Hey (name), if we were together would we be in a midlife crisis?
Her: haha tell how so
Me: both 25, together 50
Me: So we should buy a Harley Davidson
Her: hahah thats a really good idea. I drive ✋
Me: deal
Me: ill be on the back making some cocktails for us
Her: oeh nice
Her: Sex on the beach will always be my favorite
Me: its so happens to be that i have everything needed for a sex on the beach at home
Her: haha dream husband 😍
Me: then we should drink a few on my balcony
Her: yess good plan
Her: if it is dry
Me: it has a roof so always dry
Me: what does your schedule look like?
Her: oh that makes it a lot better
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Gotcha. Overall seems too gamey, but she’s seems into it.
“Mhm. Do you have WhatsApp”
Just move it forward: get her on WhatsApp. Banter a bit more: perhaps send her a good pic of your balcony and go for close again