For context: I've read through all the guides about closing back at your house, "the point of no return", etc. and honestly I think I've done a pretty good job applying all the tips. I've been on two dates with this short, decently hot latina chick, both at my house. Both times we split some wine, watched a show, and made out for a long time (I initiated and cut it off), we also made out after I walked her to her car both dates. The second date was weird though, we were making out, I kissed down her neck, got her tits out, kissed her tits, etc. and kept at it for a while but she was wearing a bodysuit thing so I couldn't take off her shirt. When I asked if she wanted to keep going she smiled, hesitated and said no so we kept kissing. I tried to take the body suit thing off after a bit but she smiled and said "no" again. I'm not sure what I could have done better here and i'm getting kind of pissed. I'm objectively out of her league (not being a dick or anything but she's clearly chasing me here: she's super responsive over text, has literally driven an hour to my house for both dates, tries to hold my hand every time we walk, texts me as soon as she gets back from our dates, etc.). I've also been with much hotter girls and have more girls in the pipeline so I'm not really invested in this but I have no idea why she's not going all the way. Has anyone else been in this situation? What should I do? Is this a waste of time? I'm tempted to just ghost her but then again, I've already gotten decently far with her and feel like sex should definitely be possible but I feel like she's shy or self-conscious or something. I'm not sure what I could be doing wrong considering she keeps demonstrating investment and seems way more into the kissing and texting and stuff than I am. I definitely do not want to get in a relationship or anything. Would really appreciate some advice, never been in this situation before.

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How about you just ask about where she’s at and what’s she’s thinking?

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Honestly didn’t think of that haha, probably worth doing though, thanks

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