Appreciate this forum and the YouTube channel, truly amazing. Just getting back into dating after a long-term relationship, and haven't really done the whole Hinge/Tinder/Bumble thing before. I'm curious if I was too aggressive in going for her number, and if there's a different avenue to go forward in the convo? Any other advice on how you would've responded in this text stream?

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I think that might’ve been a shit test. She was low key trying to call you her bitch because she’s trying to get you to apologize to show that she’s in dominance. Also by calling herself daddy. You should’ve turn the tables before going for the number because you’re supposed to use your confidence to prove to her that you’re not her bitch. I don’t know what you would say, maybe something like, “Nobody’s daddy here but me, I’m the man and you’re just a little girl.” Or “I’d bend you over and show you who daddy really is.” I don’t know man, just pass her shit test.

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Yeah I 100% agree. Honestly this was 3 days ago, and I just stumbled across this community and YouTube channel 2 days ago - definitely would've changed the response to her shit test.

I'm thinking maybe giving it a day, and then saying something like "Just to be clear going forward - I'm daddy and you're just a little girl".

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