Hello,
I’m an over thinker, so how would you guys respond to:
1.)
Me: “are you always this talkative”
Her: “yes”
2.)
Finally, how do you not run out of things to say to her to build investment.
1.)
Hey. This works probably: “Looks like you’ve got to make an exception this time ;)” (quite gamey though)
Let’s say she gives you that kind of response after negative compliance. In that case it would be probably better to call it out.
“Are you always this hostile when [insert potential reason]”
And from here you can misinterpret and you are basically good to go.
2.)
Don’t worry about things to say to build investment, after all it should be investment, banter, screening, etc. The question is more about things to say, like when she gives one response answers or stuff like that. Then maybe it’s just because the girl is not interested, your value seems low, and/or something you did before.
In other cases, perhaps it would be a good idea to stop and re-engage later when your mind is clear.
Z Collins if you don’t know the answer don’t answer.
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I run into that problem all the time but don’t know the answer to it. Alex had probably has a video on that but I don’t think that I’ve watched it.
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1.)
Hey. This works probably: “Looks like you’ve got to make an exception this time ;)” (quite gamey though)
Let’s say she gives you that kind of response after negative compliance. In that case it would be probably better to call it out.
“Are you always this hostile when [insert potential reason]”
And from here you can misinterpret and you are basically good to go.
2.)
Don’t worry about things to say to build investment, after all it should be investment, banter, screening, etc. The question is more about things to say, like when she gives one response answers or stuff like that. Then maybe it’s just because the girl is not interested, your value seems low, and/or something you did before.
In other cases, perhaps it would be a good idea to stop and re-engage later when your mind is clear.
Z Collins if you don’t know the answer don’t answer.
6 Posts (+10), 188 Cmts (+18)
How you figured out the answer to your own situation. Lol