Update about the last post: In my last post there was this girl on my college’s woman basketball team and I had got her number. Well, I texted her and eventually I found her Snapchat and she friend zoned me on Snapchat. She told me, “I’m still caught up on my ex” and “We can still be friends.” I watched videos on how to escape the friend zone and some guys in the cafeteria also helped me. We kept texting back and forth until she left me on delivered. In the videos it said to get out of the friend zone you have to make space and not contact her until she starts wondering about you. In the cafeteria, the guys wanted to help me and one of them had screenshot the chat while I was on opened. You know how on Snapchat it lets you know if someone screenshots your shit. I thought it was going to fuck shit up but it made her text back, she asked why I screenshot the chat. I know this because another guy showed me how to slowly use your finger to see the message without being seen as opened on her end. So basically the tables turned and I left her on delivered like she did me. She’s been on delivered for a day so far. Today during class she was laughing at my jokes as usual, her face was turning red and she was trying to start conversations with me. I asked everyone if they went deer hunting for Thanksgiving except for her and she said, “you didn’t ask me.” However, after class she asked me why I didn’t text her back and I told her the same exact two words she told me when I asked that question last time in class, “I DID.” I’m determined that I’m going to get out of the friend zone. I’m going to update you guys again maybe even with a picture of us together if we meet up. Now about this post: Now I’m going to give you a little context about the screenshots below. So there was this girl from my Public Speaking class and I told her at lunch in the cafeteria that I saw her Instagram page. I think it was maybe on explore page or something, I don’t remember. She asked me if I followed her, I said no and she called me a stalker. A few minutes later I followed her Instagram page while she was on her phone and she called me weird. So that’s why I opened her on Instagram with “Mean Ass” because I called her mean in person after she called me weird. I remember in one of Alex’s videos he either said that there are two types of weird or two types of nerds but I remember him saying that the two types were sexy and creepy so that’s what I asked her. I know it’s not the creepy type of weird when she said weird isn’t bad but she said I’m not the sexy type either so I gave her comment the 🤨 emoji. When she said no, I gave her a joke in the present/gift/surprise animation and she reacted to it with a laughing emoji. After a while I reengaged with a video, I know you can’t see the video but that day we were in class while she was on her phone and she found out that Young Dolph died and showed it to me. So I sent her a song by Young Dolph called Talking to My Scale saying, “This is my favorite Young Dolph Song” so that’s why she said “I only know preach.” I teased her about sending me a heart eye emoji, she probably meant it, I personally feel like she has some types of feelings about me trying to hide them. Sometimes I think she’s attractive because of her body, she has a fat ass but at the same time I don’t really know if I’m attracted to her. She’s always on her phone but she’s never active on Instagram, let me know if there’s something I should text or say to her in person.

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Bro. There is some cringey stuff here. Both in the initial approach and the texting. Idk how to say this without sounding like an asshole, but you gotta stop doing the weird shit as it's gonna work against you. I used to do this stuff also when I was a lot younger so I can speak from 1st hand experience

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Z Collins Avatar

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Weird shit like what🤷🏽‍♂️

I’m doing weird shit because I don’t know it’s weird.

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Yo watch the videos from Alex and stop being cringy: don’t encourage negative compliance.

I would suggest to take a break and just watch game, mentality, etc.

We can’t help you if you don’t help yourself. Cheers

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