I downloaded Tinder last week, and these are my "results", I did watch the videos, but I clearly didn't apply what I learned correctly hahaha Can you guys help me analyse the conversations? What shoud I have said, what I did wrong and if there is still salvation. Also, my mother language is not english, so I had to edit on paint so you guys can understand, reading now I see a few mistakes, but I wrote properly when talking to the girls. That's it, thanks !
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Foreigner, probably pushed too hard for the number, without really having a good reason. Need to build more investment and get her to agree to some sort of date.
Brunette, you're putting this girl massively on a pedestal man. Saying that there's guys having a competition who gets to meet her? Why should you be that guy? Your goal here should be to get here interested in YOU, not build her up about all the other guys she could be getting. Maybe translation is off, but the whole thing about this convo is bad from the opener.
Vanessa, same as Brunette but to a lesser scale. You're not using this opener to tell her how great she is, you use it to sexualise a bit and tell HER why she meets YOUR standards.
What these conversations basically say to the girl is the following: 'this guy is really desperate and is trying to make me feel good to sleep with me'. Really unattractive frame.
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Foreigner to be honest, I was being logical, reading it later it did sound like I pushed very hard.
It was supposed to be a joke about the competition, I tried a variation of the "openers who get a high rate response", I remember that the "exactly my type opener" was said to need a qualifier after, so I was in a dillema of being short and generic and receiving the "you say that to everyone", so went kind of hard.
Yeah, it sounds very needy, but tbh I always say those things mostly jokingly, I love self deprecating humour, that's something that I really need to fix.