Was texting back and forth, and took a few hours to respond since I was busy. She went ghost, & I double texted a week later.
Am I in the wrong or is it her?
a few things imo. first is your double text was bad, you should have used a takeaway and you should have done it within two days (i would say "don't think too hard" or "don't worry, it's not a trick question").
second thing is that i think she just wasn't invested enough to begin with. would need to see rest of convo to know the mistake, but my guess is you were overinvested comparatively
the mistake there was not escalating when she was obviously sexualizing. she was literally saying "i want to bang you", and instead of sexting / setting up a date you kinda just went sideways and started saying some other random shit. and then you kept doing that, so she probably just got bored and might have been like idt this guy is ever gonna move things forward
you should also probably condense your texts, since it makes it seem like you're investing more than you are.
prob some other mistakes i can't see in the rest of the texts
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a few things imo. first is your double text was bad, you should have used a takeaway and you should have done it within two days (i would say "don't think too hard" or "don't worry, it's not a trick question").
second thing is that i think she just wasn't invested enough to begin with. would need to see rest of convo to know the mistake, but my guess is you were overinvested comparatively
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She was, she was tryna use a sexual pun or joke while we talked
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48 Posts (+1), 74 Cmts (+11)
the mistake there was not escalating when she was obviously sexualizing. she was literally saying "i want to bang you", and instead of sexting / setting up a date you kinda just went sideways and started saying some other random shit. and then you kept doing that, so she probably just got bored and might have been like idt this guy is ever gonna move things forward
you should also probably condense your texts, since it makes it seem like you're investing more than you are.
prob some other mistakes i can't see in the rest of the texts