Title says it all. Caught ureaplasma. it's pretty simple to deal with but they told me to tell the chicks. how do i break it to them? was thinking something like "hey just tested positive for ureaplasma (STI), you should get tested" tryna do it in a way that doesn't fuck me over because none of the girls explciitly knew i was seeing other people, and one of them has been kinda flakey recently so feel like this might fuck that over.
Advice
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10mo ago
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
its really hard to recover from stuff like that. this is also made even harder by the fact that they didnt know you were hooking up with other girls. the best thing you can do is be empathetic and try to make plans. but most likely its not gonna work.
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thanks alex, brutal that an STI can blow out your whole rotation...
was thinking of waiting a week (how long it took to get my results), then sending a sequence like: "you doing ok?" --> (if they dont bring it up) "how'd the test go?" --> no STI = "awesome, we should celebrate" then go into logistics, STI = "ah that sucks im sorry :(" + wait another few weeks for it to clear up then hit her up again with a similar sequence.
what do you think?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
yeah man thats probably the best possible course of action. i just wouldnt get my hopes up too much.