Hey guys, I graduated from college a year ago. I’m on dating apps and I’m now constantly improving thanks to PWF however nothing significant to show as of yet. I’m a virgin and I had several times in the past where I could have lost it but didn’t due to poor self esteem. I’m getting older & now I want to change that. There was this girl in college I knew through mutual friends. Our friend group hung out often. She was always bratty towards me and I wasn’t really into her. After about a year she randomly tells her friend she’s into me and we were set up at a party. We were left alone and it got pretty heated making out, heavy touching, and playing with her tits. I could’ve easily went further but I didn’t smh As time went on, our friend group broke up due to some drama between my friend and her friend. Things between me and her went kinda sour & not on the best terms. She’s probably like a solid 6. She wasn’t very popular and I’m pretty sure she didn’t have any relationships in college either I haven’t talked to her in like 2 or 3 years, but I still have her phone #, Facebook, and Snapchat. I’m aiming for something casual. How would you guys engage in a situation like this?

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If you didn’t talk to her in 2-3 years then nothing gamey and flashy like "hey sexy" at the start. That can come later in the conversation

Is there some inside joke or something you guys had? If so you can say you saw/thought about that and it reminded you of her
If not say something normal "hey xyz long time no talk.. how have you been?" from there you can talk for a bit about everything that happened in these past few years (covid) and how you were dealing with it, then move the convo forward to something more fun/flirty

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Good ideas, thanks for the input bro

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