SEE COMMENTS: It’s kinda Karen-ish Probably should’ve took out the romantic part right? How’s: “If you’re into that sort of thing” or “If that’s cool...” In 48-72hrs. ANY & ALL feedback is greatly appreciated!
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that's a first. I'd just lead. "Let's do drinks Friday. How's ____ ? I'm free anytime after X"
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Did I do something wrong? lol. My job is spontaneous & on call. I wanted to see what day she’s freer so I can choose to lighten the workload for that day.
How’s messaging her “ Thinking very hard I see lol” on Friday. Then waiting a week to send the “Look if you’re not interested” line if no response.
It’s also 4/20 on Saturday so she could be looking for simps to smoke her out (I don’t smoke).
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I used to do the same thing - consider which day is best for her, and try to make plans around it. Even though it's considerate, it's not attractive. In the future, pick a time(let's do Sunday, I'm free before/after X) - it lets her know you're busy, and your time is valuable. If you don't value your own time, she won't.
As for this "I can't do tomorrow, but how's Sunday at X? The boba at Y slaps"