This is pretty poor text game overall. Your first mistake was with the 'no not getting freaky' - it wasn't a good takeaway, you didn't wait 24hrs, and it was just a little weird. She's not going to take your 'roommate' text sexual unless you make it so, a better takeaway would have been something like "Damn don't get shy on me" or "Are you always this talkative?"
You started with "Hola linda" and then went straight for a soft close, very little investment, no vibing, no bantering - it just seemed very poorly thought out. Definitely check out some articles and videos on the PlayingFire Yt/Website for the exact steps you should take to get a girl out etc. (https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-talk-to-girls-on-tinder-basic-framework-for-all-men/) - this isn't tinder but it definitely still applies.
The time planning was decent, probably the best part of the interaction, you asked her what her schedule is and showed interest when she told you she was busy (as in, you asked why and she explained) - something to keep in mind when she explained, she gave you the most investment of the whole interaction which means she's probably passionate about that/wants to talk about it more so use that. Crack some jokes while you delve deeper into her job to build investment (ie: "I could see you in a sexy lab coat")
No your text wasn't optimal, it comes off a little butthurt and I doubt it accomplishes what you want it to. Something like "Lmao how's your new job?" and then when she explains, you can ask questions, continue vibing a little, banter and then go with "Well damn sounds like you need some stress relief" and when she agrees you soft close etc. (massage, wine and whatnot).
In terms of what to do now, I would just leave the interaction and use an effective takeaway in a couple days or so.
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Ok, a couple of things here:
This is pretty poor text game overall. Your first mistake was with the 'no not getting freaky' - it wasn't a good takeaway, you didn't wait 24hrs, and it was just a little weird. She's not going to take your 'roommate' text sexual unless you make it so, a better takeaway would have been something like "Damn don't get shy on me" or "Are you always this talkative?"
You started with "Hola linda" and then went straight for a soft close, very little investment, no vibing, no bantering - it just seemed very poorly thought out. Definitely check out some articles and videos on the PlayingFire Yt/Website for the exact steps you should take to get a girl out etc. (https://www.playingfire.com/how-to-talk-to-girls-on-tinder-basic-framework-for-all-men/) - this isn't tinder but it definitely still applies.
The time planning was decent, probably the best part of the interaction, you asked her what her schedule is and showed interest when she told you she was busy (as in, you asked why and she explained) - something to keep in mind when she explained, she gave you the most investment of the whole interaction which means she's probably passionate about that/wants to talk about it more so use that. Crack some jokes while you delve deeper into her job to build investment (ie: "I could see you in a sexy lab coat")
No your text wasn't optimal, it comes off a little butthurt and I doubt it accomplishes what you want it to. Something like "Lmao how's your new job?" and then when she explains, you can ask questions, continue vibing a little, banter and then go with "Well damn sounds like you need some stress relief" and when she agrees you soft close etc. (massage, wine and whatnot).
In terms of what to do now, I would just leave the interaction and use an effective takeaway in a couple days or so.
Hope this wasn't too harsh. Goodluck bro.
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perfect this was just what I needed. thank you sam!
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Happy to help brother, lmk if you have any q's!