Most girls I meet on hinge accuse me of being a catfish. About 90% my first messages are "are you real?" "You're a catfish" "you seem like a catfish" "no one as attractive as you would be on here lol". It's frustrating because a lot of chicks are skeptical that I am real. On a lot of my first dates girls said they were on the fence about meeting me because they were sure I was who I am in my pictures. And I could tell because they have to get my social media which I don't feel comfortable giving before I meet someone. And I've got pictures of my girlfriend (we're in an open relationship) on my ig. And I'm sure a lot of girls swipe left on me thinking I'm a catfish. What should I do to make them believe I'm not one?
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Yeah just post something on your profile that a catfish would never post. Like "let's FaceTime first so I know you're not a 300lb black man" or maybe post your snapchat which I think catfish don't use since its realtime pics/vids I think. The best part of video calls is it at least for me has a higher close rate and lower flake rate.
But yeah man you being lean af is prob the reason. You on anything to help that?
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Yeah, I've added "If you think I'm fake, we can FaceTime" to my Tinder and Bumble bios. But what about Hinge?
And Im a fitness model🤷🏻♂️ But do you think this one's better than that pic?
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Yeah use this one instead of that last one. It's kinda posed, but the shot & lighting is much cleaner.