what are some ways of verbally escalating before physical? I have tried grabbing her hand and looking into her eyes saying I want to kiss those lips or grabbing her hand and just talking something sensual to her about her eyes, lips, face, body etc. i think its good to try early to at least see if there is resistance...think you want to find out early if she has resistance but dont want to spend hours for her to feel comfortable ...or is that a mistake? my thought is if she isnt feeling it at first she might not ever feel it...thoughts?