Hi everyone, first i want to say thank you to alex youtube and blog tips because of this, i have tons of matches and nice conversations with women , now i need help with closing the deals (if you dont want to read the full story I summarized it in bullet points in the end of the thread) i met a cute chick on tinder and i knew 100% she want to get laid the same day she was super invested and gave me her number after 10 sentences we scheduled to meet up at her place (15 min drive from mine) and when I entered her apartment and we set down her body language was open to me, she played with her hair and looked at my dick every 10 seconds in short she wanted me to escalate.... for some freaking reason I didnt know how... usually im ok with escalation but as much as her was open about her feelings with her body language she was very boring with the way she spoke, she looked like she is going to fall asleep any minute now. and for some reason i started talking to her about her life and shit with the hope of making the conversation more interesting so i could escalate easier but it only made the meeting more boring I even tried the 3 conversation topics alex recommended to make a conversation interesting and it didnt work, for example i asked her "what kind of men you like" she said, i dont really have a type, im fine either way... this is the level of boring haha i tried to kiss her after i saw she is ok with me touching her legs but she moved her head and the conversation got boring no matter how much i tried to revive it, i even stopped talking for like 20 seconds and she didnt try to get it back on track and this is why I actually left her place after one hour, because she didnt get a good night sleep the day before and she kept yawning at me so i told her, i got to leave because its not fun to talk to someone that is falling a sleep right infront of me and she said im fine either way she is not down to meeting again, she said "we are not vibing the same" in short: she was super invested in the beginning (she even texted me saying "where are you" 30 minutes before we scheduled) she played with her hair and looked at my dick every 10 seconds when we first met but was very boring verbally so I didn't know how to escalate after i started talking about her life and stuff she moved away from me and started getting more and more tired and i even tried to use the 3 conversation topics to revive the conversation but she answered very boringly i tried to kiss her but she moved her head but she was fine with me touching her legs gently with my fingers i left her place after she didnt stop yawning and almost fell a sleep on me saying she slept for 5 hours last night i know i could have fucked her, she was sending me clear signals but i didnt know what to do because she didnt opened up verbally at all!! even when she played with her hair and looked at my dick she was boring AF edit: i was able to use my sales tactics to get her back on track with meeting me for a second date ( i can post what i said to her if anyone is interested) now i need some tips to not fuck it up again haha