https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/overinvested-how-to-follow-up So this is a follow up to the above thread. The girl was a bit slow to respond but ultimately I got the number and soft closed for drinks. Once we switched to text she ghosted on two close attempts. She was insta replying to my messages so maybe my last message about where she was from wasn’t necessary, could have just suggested the meet instead. The plan was to close in the text after that one but she didn’t reply. For some reason my phone deleted two messages. After her text about having work due Monday I said ahh sounds stressful what are you studying. She said biotechnology and pharmaceutical engineering. Then I said the artsy line. Thoughts?

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The crux of the issue is that you didn’t close on the first date correct me if I’m wrong? If you don’t have sex on the first date a lot of girls will just lose interest and become flakey like this.

You could beat around the bush and slowly try and rebuild interest over text but I would probably just be direct.

“Are you interested in meeting up again”

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J

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Yeah, point of no return with this one. I’m leaving town in a few weeks so I’ll just go direct with your suggestion. Thanks

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