Okay so the issue I'm facing since past few months is i approach a girl in cold approach and sometimes it's same day lay sometimes makeout n sometimes i have to settle down for number close. The sets which i number close and i come back home n text them they chase and are super in and I'm their first priority for next 2-3 days and we fix date for upcoming weekend because I don't get time during week time as I have classes n girls have classes n work so we get free on Saturday Sunday so I have those 4-5 days in between n during those 4-5 days during texting sets start going down n some of my sets loose interest in me or they flip n few of them flake and once a set flakes I start loosing interest because I'm habitual of being treated as first priority so when they flake i feel like stop talking to them n it becomes hard for me to talk to them because i feel we met in real and talked on text as well so it's enough sample of my personality to let her decide how we go next n she not coming on date means she has decided n after that i feel as if I'm chasing so i don't feel like asking her to meet again so can anyone tell me what to do or how to text n how much to text during those 4-5 days in between where i fixed the date n we are supposed to meet after those 4-5 days because that's where I'm fucking up