There is definitely many ways you can go about accomplishing this . Personally, I do it by being very unfiltered . If a raunchy comment or joke floats through my mind, I will say it, where as most people won't . This makes a conversion with me by default a lot more exciting on average . Another big thing I would utilize is tension. Once you learn how to do it correctly, it can be very powerful. So, right from the start I will maintain very strong eye contact . Then, throughout the conversation, if the girl says something that I want her to question , I will leave few seconds of silence before replying, Those few silent seconds can create very strong tension. The key though, is to not create more tension then she can handle at any given moment. Basically, pressure on and pressure off. Few seconds of intense silence, followed up by a smirk and a little humor .